well dammit man, put a damper on my day too!!! staying along this subject, trying to convince my wife to let someone take care of video/pictures for us...i wouldn't havta be too concerned about getting the right shot or angle cuz, there's miles of film wish i could had gotten that first time (if you know what i mean) told her maybe even a guy being gay!! (if that's her concern) on the other hand though i'm telling her that it should be "eye candy" for her! type of guy she likes..have 'em in tight shorts and tank top! she's at least thinkiung about it! i also got her into having someone coming to a motel or the house for strictly a professional full body massage